English Writing
English is important to me. Obviously, I use it as the medium language of Ejomlexus blog. I barely post things in Filipino here because my target audiences are the ones who speak and read and understand the common English, that’s why I keep on studying the rules of writing and everything about English to make this blog easier to dig in.
One of the tools I’m using to improve my writing skills is this book I’ve got from my recent company training. It’s William Strunk Jr. and E.B. White’s The Elements of Style (4th edition). The book contains rich and effective English writing elements that would really enhance your writing, for example: the correct usage of apostrophe “s” and the “;” semicolon; the simplification of the sentences; the relationship of independent and dependent clauses; and many more.
The rules in the book are more understandable and more feasible to follow for those who want to start a writing habit; hence, it’s very enlightening for me. It’s a must read for bloggers, writers and students. In fact, in my job, the elements in this book are the basis of our grammar and composition quality. If you missed a rule, then you go to jail get low scores; therefore, it must be strictly followed.
I’ve already read the book twice and tried to apply elements, but I don’t why I still have the same old writing skills. Perhaps, I need more time to inculcate it in my skull and in my heart in order for me to say that I’ve improved. I’m doing my best, though.
I’m not pretty sure if this is still available in the bookstores here in the Philippines, but you can buy a soft copy of it in Amazon…or just let me know; let see if I can lend you a copy.
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My K-Pop Hairstyle
I went to Manila just to get my hair done. I’ve been longing for the Fix Salon in SM San Lazaro simply because I’m not satisfied with the services of the cheap salons in Antipolo. Salons in Antipolo are only after for more income, and not with customer satisfaction. They are always in a hurry when they style my hair, perhaps cutters have quotas or they are just hyper to grab all the customers in the area.
Meanwhile, in Fix Salon, I was happy to see my same old stylist – Arnold, Marvin – plus, they’ve got new staff like Ferdie, who recently did a great job for giving me a makeover. Haircut price is still at Php185.00.
To be honest, I noticed the stress in my face. I needed a haircut not just to attract people in my new office, but also to give myself a fresh look. And since the brush-up hairdo didn’t work for me, they gave me a K-pop hairstyle.
I love the result. Adding a blade cut in my right eyebrow gives me a bad boy look and emphasize to my style and advantage for my everyday wear.
Check-out where he copied this…
Way to similar, right?
Anyways, if you want to try this salon, just drop by at the ground floor of SM San Lazaro – right inside the Super Bench boutique.
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The Corner…
There’s a moment in your life
Where you just want to be in the corner.
Sometimes, you are curious about;
Sometimes, you don’t know to why.
Not all the truth are in the center.
They lay right beside the corner
Because people are meant to look for it,
People have to crave and die for it.
In the corner, there’s always a space,
Since all people want to be at the center.
Corners are sad and filled with fears,
And most of time, leads you to sophocate.
Corners are for two kinds of people:
For people who want to be alone, and
For people who want everybody’s attention.
Either of those, they make corners look bad.
Corner is where to subjects meet.
Example: two walls, two streets and two people.
It’s not a trap nor it’s the end, but
It’s gives us route or connection to something.
If you’ve been caught in the corner,
Turn around because the other side is widely open.
It tells us never surrender.
It tells us to wonder.
For me, that’s a corner.
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Nasanay Na Ako…
Hindi ko matago ang nararamdaman ko.
Tila ba ako’y hindi na naniniwala sa mga pangako mo.
Noon ay mahal kita, pero bigla na lang nawala.
Naghahanap ng lugar ang puso kung saan sasaya.
Sinanay mo akong naghihintay;
Nasanay akong luha’y walang humpay;
Nasanay akong hindi ka nakikita,
At hindi na madama.
Sinanay mo akong nasaksaktan,
Kapag may kasama kang iba.
Ngayon ako’y manhid na
Saan pa ako pupunta?
Hindi ko ninanais maamo mong mukha
Mapait na halik ay hindi na sinisinta
Tigas ng ulo mo ay natanggap ko na
Kahit kausap mo s’ya sa akin ay baliwala.
Sinanay mo akong lumuluha,
Nasanay na ako na walang kasama,
Nasanay mo akong magwalang bahala
At di ka hanapin pa.
Sinanay mo akong nasaksaktan,
Kapag may kasama kang iba.
Masakit man tanggapin…sanay na akong mag-isa.
Hindi na ako muling aasa pa sa’yo;
Lahat ng kahapon ko ay iiwan ko.
Lumuha man ako dahil wala ka na,
Hindi ko matitiis maging bulagbulagan na.
Binago mo ang mundo ko,
Di ibig sabihin sa’yo na ito hihinto.
Sinanay mo ako na wala ka.
Ngayon, Nasanay na ako.
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I feel like writing this poem in Filipino…Sorry to my English-fellas.
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I’m Bored…So Here’s Some of My Drawings!
Drawing was my favorite past time when the internet and computer hasn’t reached my home, that’s why I feel like I kid every time I bring back this talent to my routine.
My Grandfather is an artist, that’s why it is in our genes to draw or paint or do some lettering. I remember during Elementary and High School days, when we have art projects, we no longer asked for help from anyone. We do it all ourselves.
Anyways, I made these collections recently, and I bet you’ve seen some of these on my previous posts. But to give a full preview of my sketchpad, feel free to browse this post (and don’t forget to leave your comments).
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Food That I Missed So Much :)
All I could think about in my rest day was to eat. And the food I just dug in were the things I missed so much.
This one was a slice of Sansrival cake from Goldilocks – I usually order this on my birthday, but since October is way too far, I gave myself an early treat.
Next is Gummyworms. I’m a big fan of gummy candies. I love it’s fruity, sour taste. It gives me *kilig* every time I eat it. Sugar helps me my brain function, by the way.
In the red corner, well, it’s McDonald’s Big ‘N Tasty. I’ve tasted it once and I ordered it again. It is not actually that really big and tasty, but it’s enough to occupy the spaces in my tummy.
On the other hand, Chicken Balls – I rarely see Manong Fishball alongside the streets of Antipolo. I don’t know if people are afraid of Hepatitis or they are just invisible when I’m around. That’s why I bought a couple of packs of these fingerlings.
Finally, Pik-Nik: Shoestrings and Nescafe Sweet and Creamy. You know that I love coffee, while Pik-Nik was my old childhood sweetheart amount all the snacks in the market. I’ve been with this couple since I was a kid.
I just crave for them all of a sudden, but now, *whoalah* crave satisfied.
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Relationship Flaws and How to Manage them?
I’m not in an expert shoe to give advices about relationship flaws, but I think my past and present relationship experiences – plus over-watching of Personalan and Face-to-Face episodes – make me eligible to discuss this topic.
For those aiming a long-term (or forevermore) relationship, relationship flaws may seem to be a forging experience for a couple. However, for those who are considering an ending to their current relationship, I believe these things are enumerated in a piece of paper of why they have to leave their partners. As general, people look at these instances as tough times. It causes tears, times and, sometimes, even lives. For my opinion, relationship flaws are something to look forward to when you’re getting into a relationship. It’s like the inevitable things that you need to expect all days of your life. It’s not because you have to think negatively, but it some sort of anticipation of what to happen or how you could prepare myself. Hence, expect the unexpected.
To be honest, I’m one of those who look forward to “forevermore”. (Who never does anyway?) Although I could say that I’m very happy with my relationship these days, but there’s a part of me that I have to prepare with this flaws in order for me to stay aiming to my long-term plan.
What to expect? For me these two are the common things:
JEALOUSY
In my own relationship dictionary, jealousy has two definitions: (1) it defines how much you don’t want to lose a person, and (2) it could also be defined as how much you trust your partner. People always get wrong understanding when it comes to this situation. They thought people could get rid of it easily but aren’t really. That’s why I always remember and I advise my friends that never listen to people who said that they’ve overcome this feeling. They are lying and they could only add burden in your situation. No one actually can get rid of this. The right people to talk to when it comes to asking for advise are the ones who say “I’ve learned to manage it”. How to manage it, though?
One of the things that triggers jealousy is the lost of importance. When it fades, there goes the comparison. When there’s comparison, there’s quarrel.
If you don’t want to hear your partner comparing because of jealousy, don’t make a reason to get your partner think of something suspicious. I would suggest that you always evaluate your actions, and try asking yourself “Am I doing all things fairly?” or “Am I still the same as before?” or as simply as “What have I done?”
For instance, if your intention is to be sweet to the people around you, be sweeter to the person whom you want to be with for the rest of your life. Don’t take you relationship for granted. It’s not always that you’re always together or talk to each other you have to forget the rest of story. Always make it to the point or try to get use to an attitude where you provide the needs of partner. Make sure you that whatever good thing you do to other people, you make it more special to your partner. Besides, that’s what relationship is all about: making your “only one” feels special.
DEAD COMMUNICATION
Communication is really important to a relationship. We all know that. What I meant about dead communication is that when partners cut off their communication strings when they are already living together or (for long and not-too-long distance relationship) simply they are virtually offline.
In a relationship, always take the chances of communicating with your partner. It’s a common mistake that partners think they don’t have to talk about their lives anymore when they are together because it would trigger the “Getting Sick of it” factor, that’s not a valid reason.
Every time you feel something wrong, ask yourself again. What will you lose if you just send your partner a message and say “Hey, it’s my lunch break. If you’re hungry you go eat as well. <3” or “I just arrived at office” or “Hi! I’m just cleaning the house!” Truthfully, saying these build foundation in your communication, not only that, it builds trust as well. Actually, even the simplest messages like “Good morning, (name)” and “See you later, Honey” melts a lot of communication gap and even a building anger. For long distance relationship, try sending messages even you’re partner is offline. It makes people smile when they find your name blinking in their messenger or e-mail.
If you think your partner would not appreciate every message, text and calls you make, I would suggest that you think again. Sometimes, it’s not because your ‘only one’ ignores your messages, you don’t make him/her feel special. In fact, every time you call or text or message your partner, at the back of their mind, you make them feel comfortable and special, and later on you make him/her realize that your sweetness has never changed – and that’s part of building trust as well.
Also, never forget to talk about things in nice way, especially if you’re dealing with a problem. Tough situation are not to be settled with tough conversation. Learn how to calm yourself even if the other line is burning with words. The more you’re relaxed the more you understood the situation and come up with better solution.
Above all, get rid of negative things and always look at the brighter side of your situations.
(Photo from: http://www.mentalhelp.net/images/root/vincedivorce.jpg)
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Gray…Gray…Gray!
I have had a change of plan this week. I’ve decided to stay at home and just spend my rest day with my Hubb. Well, we were supposed to go to a friend’s house but I didn’t feel like pushing the plan because I just came from my shift – graveyard – and I needed some rest.
This day was full of gray moments – not so happy, not so sad – enough for me to say that it was just neutral. It was like there was nothing so special happening. And since this gray day affects my mood, it affects my fashion taste as well.
Shirt. Bag, Shoes. Undies (picture not included)
I didn’t plan to wear it. I just pulled what attracts me in my closet and racks, and just wear it. I just noticed I was wearing everything gray when my colleague told me so. Now, I, therefore, believe that mood reflects to your everyday wear; vice versa.
What makes me gray, anyway?
I don’t have an idea, to be honest. It seems that everything rhymes to fashion these days, even though I have limited choices inside my super confined wardrobe. One time, I’ve worn all stripes; the following day, I’ve worn something light and relaxed. I just thank God dots don’t attract me so far.
Anyway, to end my day right, I need to get rid of this dull moment, that’s why I write and I do what I love and eat more doughnuts. I’m still not in the mood to go somewhere else, though.
T-shirt: Folded and Hung. Bag: Human. Shoes: Somewhere there.
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Still At DAMN LOL
Every day of my life, I always find myself laughing at this freakin’ website –Damn LOL.
I don’t call it procrastination anymore because it’s already part of my daily routine to check at least 5 pages a day. In fact, I checked it more than my twitter and Facebook accounts, because it was super addicting.
I haven’t shared this to my new officemates since browsing is allowed in our office, especially during breaks. For sure, they would love and get addicted to the site.
Well, I don’t know if I mentioned this on my previous post about Damn LOL, but it’s a site where can find a compilation of funny, annoying and jaw-dropping photos. You got to see it for yourself.
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Fashion Accessory Store: The Pink Empress (Part 2 of 2)
Pink Empress continues…
Nath wasn’t answering my calls yesterday, but she replied to me through a single text while I was sleeping. She said that she’s already gotten the package from Pink Empress through LBC. She even sent me her photos wearing it.
Check this out…
As usual, she’s bought the girly fashion colours — light blue and pink — that she always wears everyday. But anyways, it looks exactly as advertised on their facebook page.
It costs only Php 150.00(US$3.59 est.) for 3 pairs, and Php 60.00 (US$1.43 est.) each. Click here to see the page.
And these…
I think this is what she ordered. Click here to see the page.
I like this one more — it’s more elegant — and it costs only Php 120.00 (US$2.87).
I gave Nath a call a few minutes ago and she told me that the store owner was very courteous as she didn’t need to text her for follow ups, and the store was really contactable through the number they provided on their Facebook page.
She didn’t ask if Pink Empress accepts bulk orders, but I’m planning to give the owner a call and ask.
By the way, I took a screen shot of everything she sells on our site. Click the link below to continue reading.
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Fashion Accessory Store: The Pink Empress (Part 1 of 2)
It’s the start of rainy season here in Manila. My girl friends and I can’t go out of the house to visit shopping malls to spend their pay day money. So they asked me to look for local online store that sells affordable yet exquisite designs of fashion accessories.
To be honest, I don’t like purchasing via online. I preferred to walk than to click when buying stuffs. But since the streets are wet and the rain is unstoppable, the only choice I’ve is got is to help them and use my internet surfing skills to look for more reliable online shop in the Philippines.
Then I found, this store on facebook…
Actually, one of friends referred me here. She told me that this is one of the trusted fashion online stores she has dealt with. Choices are very unique, in fact, they offer made-to-order fashion accessories, and the owner was very contactable via phone so you can easily give them your instructions, she added.
I checked their Facebook page myself to find out more them and their transaction. Here’s what I’ve got:
- They’ve got their number posted on the page, and it’s working (I tried calling it).
- They’ve got easy-to-read-easy-to-understand-policy. Click here.
- They accept payments through BPI, GCash, and Western Union.
- They ship via Air21 or LBC. (But it depends on your location).
- Lastly, designs are unique and brand new, except if you want request to have inspiration with your designs.
The store offers a wide array of unique bracelets, necklaces, rings and foot accessories. I will try to post them tomorrow here. For now, though, I’ll give my girl friends a call and I’ll let you know their feedback about the items they bought.
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Wanna Be By Spice Girls (JaMaWaKen And Friends COVER)
Stressed and time-pressured, we refreshed ourselves by doing something we were really ought to do, that’s to create a music video cover. This was taken a couple of weeks ago when we organized a friend’s debut party. Please watch…
This was planned even before the “Call me maybe” video of the Preview cover girls appeared.
We chose “Wanna Be” by Spicegirls simply because it’s one of our barkada songs, and Warner Diong, the guy wearing white shirt in the video, was an avid fan of the amazing girl band.
Hope you all like it.
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Make fun of other people = BAD. Make fun of yourself = Indeed, FUN.
I did this old “Ejomlexus blogspot” reminiscing moment last night since I could not get myself a sleep for some reason. It wasn’t my intention at all to re-read my previous blog site. It’s just that I could not think of any website to open to get myself into sleep, that’s why I ended up checking my blogspot posts.
A few minutes after I opened my old blog, I found myself giggling about my crappy English and some old pictures. To give you an overview, here are the things I found. (Just a reminder, though: I won’t post the links anymore, just seach it if you can. Hehehe!)
So here we go…
These photos were taken last 2009 Christmas Party at my previous company. This was our group presentation. Mama Rea, Rachel, Toto, Ruel and I played the casts of Dreamgirls. For those curious, prepare yourself, here’s the complete video:
(GOSH!)
And this is me before the presentation. I played as “Melo” of Deathnote. I didn’t win the best contest, obviously. But we won the best group performance.
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Nothing Has Changed. I Still Wear Shutter Shades.
I’ve lost the last pair of my shutter shades more than 2 years ago. From then, I had a hard time looking for my favourite pairs. I’ve been through a lot of places, fashion dens and malls just to find a new pair; I failed. Luckily, I found one when I recently visited the Tutuban mall in Divisoria, Manila.
FYI, I really love shutter shades at the first time I saw it. It was very fashionable and unique for me. In fact, I mentioned it in my “About Page” that I’m an avid fun of that shades, and I’m ready to spend for it for the sake of fashion.
My colleagues in my new work actually asked me about the logic of wearing partial shades. They were curious why I love wearing such eyewear in normal days when they only see people wearing it in parties. Well, my answer comes from their question itself: I want to be happy every hour of my life and I want to feel like I’m partying all day wherever I go. Aside from that, I wear shutter shades because I feel unique whenever I wear it. And just like the tall women wearing high-heel pumps, it’s not (actually) just about fashion, but it’s about building my personality and confidence. As you know, only a chosen few people can wear such the whole day.
Moreover, beside from the I’m-unique-baby feeling of wearing this kind of eyewear, shutter shades have two purposes for me: one, to cover my eyes from too much light during the day (it still filters light, you know); second, just to cover my eyes at night (Yes, you’ll still see everything at night, unlike wearing the usual shades). But, as I’ve mentioned, it requires skill to wear this. If you think you have vertigo or something like vision problem, it is advised not to wear such. I swear you won’t like it. But if you insist, you can buy it online or drop by at “Mura Dito” shop in Tutuban Mall.
Anyways, always remember that fashion rule is all about confidence. Ask Lady Gaga and Tyra Banks about it. Never let your ego down. If you want to wear something that would define yourself, go for it. This is a free country…you can do what you want! LOLz
That’s all folks!
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Anti-Stress: Happylemon Teas
I was stressed in the past few weeks for finding a new job. I left my previous company because I needed to sustain and I couldn’t wait for them to recall me from being temporarily laid-off for almost a month. Aside from that, I have new plans like to travel to some places in Southeast Asia and to buy new stuff for our house – and I need money to fulfill those.
While I was looking for a job I hanged-out with my friends at Happylemon (SM Megamall Branch). I felt the need for thirst quenchers and to bond with flavoured teas because, as I’ve said, I was really stressed.
Thankfully, our Happylemon day was really a soothing experience, enough for me to say that their featured teas were worth paying for. It was, actually, my first time to taste the most natural blueberry flavoured milk tea in my life, and when you say natural blueberry flavour, that means it was really and awesomely sour.
Tea prices are affordable and really worth it, and that lessen my stress too. If you experience it, you would really say that you have to come back to the store. You have to try it if you haven’t visited the shop.
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Prayer
When I was a kid, I thought that prayers were like messages that were being collate and sent to God by messengers (or angels) every night. That’s why I made sure that every prayer I had was long; so when God listens to it I knew it would be answered all at the same time. In fact, before I pray I list the things and names of people whom I wished to include in my prayer, so I wouldn’t forget each of them.
My grandmother, a Roman Catholic, was the one who taught me how to pray. She’s my inspiration when it comes to dedication in prayers. Just like any other old women, she does it every day and night. She has different kind of rosaries, prayer books, list of saints and a replica of the crucifixion of Jesus Christ. She told me once that prayers have a big impact in our family’s financial, spiritual and physical health; and I really believe in that.
In some way, my perception has changed, of course, when I get to know God as I grew up. Right now, I look at prayers as my normal conversation with God. I do pray whenever it is possible – in jeep, FX, CR (while doing the call of nature), and even at work. This communication gives me a certain attachment to God and makes me feel like I’m guided by his grace all the time. It makes my day complete whenever I say even the shortest prayer.
Actually, there are times that I see myself as kid whenever I pray. I asked God several questions as though I don’t know the answers. Sometimes, I even pray to God just to let the rain stop because I didn’t bring an umbrella, and then all of a sudden, the rain would stop right after I say AMEN. (Cool, right?) Lately, I found out that it doesn’t have to be complicated when you try to speak to God. He doesn’t look at any weird rituals and ceremonies; instead, he looks at your heart and the intention of your prayer. In fact, I talk to God as though I’m talking to a loving best friend or a Father.
I would like to admit that whenever I pray I seriously cry like a baby who hasn’t had his milk bottle. Of course, I make sure that whenever I do that no one hears me. It’s some sort of like a special moment for me to make God feel that I’m getting, somehow, tired of what’s happening in my life. It ain’t a suicidal message to God, but I pray as though I’m raising a white flag to God saying that I need a help from him. I feel free to say to Go that “God, I have a problem!” or “I miss you so much, God”, because I know God wants to hear it from me. I’m never afraid to come in to the moment when I feel like saying “God, this situation makes feel like I want to hate you”. I knew God loves talking to me about everything. And one thing is for sure: He never gets tired of listening.
Despite of that kind of relationship, I also admit that most of the times I still forget to pray. I’ll just notice that I needed to go back on track only when something wrong is happening. It doesn’t mean, however, that God is using those instances to call me. Whenever such times come, God reminds me that he’s there to rescue; therefore, I pray.
At this age of 26, I feel the need to have an intense relationship with God. Of course, in order to start, I need to learn how to communicate with God and ask for his guidance – and that’s through prayers. It doesn’t matter about your religion – all religion I know requires their people to pray and or do rituals – or how they taught you how to communicate with God, but what matter is that you have a relationship with him.
To know more about prayers, this link might be helpful for you: Click Click Click.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
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